Transcript – January 9: “The Dark Side of Emotional Intelligence”

Pre-reading for this week’s #lrnchat: The Dark Side of Emotional Intelligence.

8:30 PM lrnchat Welcome everyone to #lrnchat! How have you been?
8:31 PM jshamsy Manipulation or just using skillz? The dark side of Emotional Intelligence. This week’s #lrnchat topic http://t.co/uuG49Qwpv6
8:31 PM lrnchat Please introduce yourselves. Passions? Projects? What are you working on these days? #lrnchat
8:31 PM lodtrain Hello from IT Global Educational Services happy to be @ #lrnchat
8:32 PM Quinnovator settling me down to a warm heaping bowl of memestream w/ #lrnchat, duck or join. Welcome to new & returning participants!
8:32 PM JD_Dillon Hey howdy hey, #lrnchat … JD from Orlando, FL preparing to accept the path of the dark side.
8:32 PM eLearninCyclops Jeff Goldman – eLearning Designer in Baltimore. Working on — Just about everything #lrnchat
8:32 PM CandiceCPLP Hi #lrnchat Candice from NC here
8:32 PM learner4eva Ann – coaching, mentoring, onboarding, integrated talent management
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8:32 PM write2tg Taruna Goel from Vancouver BC. Glad to see the polar vortex finally withdraw. There is a dark side to everything. Nature included. #lrnchat
8:32 PM JaneBozarth RT @lrnchat Welcome everyone to #lrnchat! How have you been?
8:32 PM kregerck #lrnchat Pre-reading for tonight’s lrnchat: http://t.co/y6m7JtaVOg
8:33 PM heikan2003 Heidi; emp dev mngr. trying to boost my artistic creativity this year while working on boring system roll out. #lrnchat
8:33 PM JaneBozarth @songoflearning @teachthought why are you spamming #lrnchat ?
8:33 PM JD_Dillon RT @lrnchat: Please introduce yourselves. Passions? Projects? What are you working on these days? #lrnchat
8:33 PM DaveHallmon @lrnchat Trying to quickly skim the reading http://t.co/swkdzoxmgV before class🙂 #LRNchat
8:33 PM Quinnovator Clark Quinn, L&D revolutionary, learning experience design advocate, author/speaker/consultant, genial malcontent, Walnut Creek CA #lrnchat
8:33 PM write2tg RT @lrnchat Please introduce yourselves. Passions? Projects? What are you working on these days? #lrnchat
8:33 PM lodtrain Passionate about tech, elearning, videos, webinars and happy “IT Geek” #lrnchat
8:34 PM jshamsy Jennifer from Atlanta…. Think the cold temps might finally be gone. Happy 2014! #lrnchat
8:34 PM reubentozman Reuben Tozman – Toronto, Learning on Demand guy, @SlideJar guy, love the data #lrnchat
8:34 PM lrnchat Q0) We always begin with this: What did you learn today? If not today, then this week? #lrnchat
8:34 PM write2tg Taruna Goel, program manager, instructional designer, performance consultant; passionate about learning, technology and change #lrnchat
8:34 PM write2tg RT @lrnchat Q0) We always begin with this: What did you learn today? If not today, then this week? #lrnchat
8:34 PM JD_Dillon RT @lrnchat: Q0) We always begin with this: What did you learn today? If not today, then this week? #lrnchat
8:34 PM learner4eva A0) The AAA app is faster than calling the number for roadside assistance #lrnchat
8:34 PM JaneBozarth Jane, Raleigh-ish, writer, IDperson, doctor of learn’ stuff, fighting the bikeshed #lrnchat
8:35 PM JaneBozarth RT @lrnchat: Q0) We always begin with this: What did you learn today? If not today, then this week? #lrnchat
8:35 PM learner4eva RT @lrnchat Q0) We always begin with this: What did you learn today? If not today, then this week? #lrnchat
8:35 PM write2tg A0) I learned ‘There is only one corner of the universe you can be certain of improving, and that’s your own self’ Aldous Huxley
#lrnchat
8:35 PM JennaHynes Jenna here… PMP in the T&D space. Org Dev is my passion #lrnchat
8:35 PM reubentozman A0) I’ve immersed myself in the world of SEO and long-tail content strategies
#lrnchat
8:35 PM Quinnovator a0) learned yesterday that I can whip up 500 words in a *very* short time (for better or worse😉 #lrnchat
8:35 PM JD_Dillon A0) Today’s key learning: I’m not INSANE … There are people who think like me hiding in the depths of my org. #lrnchat
8:35 PM kregerck #lrnchat Christine Kreger, Professional Development for the Colorado State Library. Passionate about learning!
8:36 PM sachac Sacha, Toronto; learning more about self-directed learning, and drawing/sharing my notes along the way #lrnchat
8:36 PM DaveHallmon @lrnchat A0) It doesn’t matter how much blue salty stuff you put on the snow. It makes blue salty snow! Yes! #DeicingDilemma #LRNchat
8:36 PM JaneBozarth RT @learner4eva: A0) The AAA app is faster than calling the number for roadside assistance #lrnchat
8:36 PM Quinnovator RT @reubentozman: A0) I’ve immersed myself in the world of SEO and long-tail content strategies #lrnchat < half of that sounds good
8:36 PM lodtrain Q0) Attended great webinar 2014 learning frcst and they mentioned the Yelp of training and HR industries http://t.co/z1hRNIJlOG
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8:36 PM JaneBozarth @learner4eva THAT is good to know. Thanks. #lrnchat
8:36 PM reubentozman @Quinnovator which half? #lrnchat
8:36 PM kelly_smith01 Kelly Smith Consultant and Gadfly about Learning Plano, TX #lrnchat
8:36 PM learner4eva @JaneBozarth They will send an email conformation and place an automated call to you as well. loved it #lrnchat
8:36 PM jshamsy Learned that I am probably going to re-think my late policies/extra credit #students #lrnchat https://t.co/upg5ZAhRsH
8:37 PM CandiceCPLP Learned that there is a large group that thinks Gardner is an illusion. #lrnchat
8:37 PM write2tg I did too! Interesting and pretty stuff. Very inspiring! RT @JaneBozarth Learned about printing 3D candy #lrnchat
8:37 PM kregerck #lrnchat Q0) Learning that experimenting with new ideas is fun!
8:37 PM JaneBozarth I mean, learned about 3D printed candy. #lrnchat
8:37 PM theASIDEblog Happy New Year! We learned that once again “flexibility” is the best “F” word. #lrnchat
8:37 PM brunowinck Good Morning, Bruno Winck Software architect at Kneaver #lrnchat
8:37 PM sachac A0: I learned I can deal with -17C + windchill. Also, mapping topics helps people learn (even technical ones like Emacs geekery). #lrnchat
8:37 PM JD_Dillon A0) Also had a nice reminder that scalable does not equate to quality learning strategy #lrnchat
8:37 PM eLearninCyclops A0) I learned today – Sometimes delaying to return a call can lead to staff trying to find the solution on their own.🙂 #lrnchat
8:37 PM lodtrain RT @kregerck: #lrnchat Q0) Learning that experimenting with new ideas is fun!
8:37 PM heikan2003 A0) that sometimes all you need is a job aid, not full blown eLearning #lrnchat
8:37 PM learner4eva RT @JD_Dillon A0) Also had a nice reminder that scalable does not equate to quality learning strategy #lrnchat
8:37 PM DaveHallmon @lrnchat Q0) Saddened when I learned about the #Sriracha shortage😦 #LRNchat
8:37 PM changeguerilla A0: I learnt if I work on something till it’s finished I get much more done. #lrnchat
8:38 PM brunowinck Learned abour curation, mobile design and sanskrit #lrnchat
8:38 PM eLearninCyclops RT @heikan2003 A0) that sometimes all you need is a job aid, not full blown eLearning #lrnchat | True that
8:38 PM Quinnovator RT @heikan2003: A0) that sometimes all you need is a job aid, not full blown eLearning #lrnchat < hear her!
8:38 PM JaneBozarth @sachac HI –it’s good to see you in #lrnchat !
8:38 PM kregerck RT @heikan2003: A0) that sometimes all you need is a job aid, not full blown eLearning #lrnchat
8:38 PM CandiceCPLP RT @heikan2003: A0) that sometimes all you need is a job aid, not full blown eLearning #lrnchat
8:38 PM JD_Dillon @heikan2003 USUALLY all you need is quality reference info, not an event … #lrnchat
8:38 PM Quinnovator RT @brunowinck: Learned abour curation, mobile design and sanskrit #lrnchat < now *that* is eclectic!
8:38 PM kelly_smith01 Did some learning on serendipity – looking for more serendipity moments #lrnchat
8:39 PM gabriellabroady a0) learned about cooking gluten free scalloped potatoes from my mom, who’s visiting us this week! #lrnchat
8:39 PM ciaraungar RT @JaneBozarth: I mean, learned about 3D printed candy. #lrnchat
8:39 PM CandiceCPLP “@changeguerilla: A0: I learnt if I work on something till it’s finished I get much more done. #lrnchat”>yup!
8:39 PM DaveHallmon RT @lrnchat: Q1) What is Emotional Intelligence (Also known as EQ)? #LRNchat
8:39 PM heikan2003 @JD_Dillon Kinda disappointing sometimes when you really want an event.🙂 #lrnchat
8:39 PM urbie #lrnchat A0 learned that while #Sketchnoting requires specialized pens the #DoodleRevolution sets us free to use whatever.
8:40 PM KCASTD @kelly_smith01 “serendipity” what a great word. #lrnchat
8:40 PM heikan2003 @kelly_smith01 “serendipity” what a great word. #lrnchat
8:40 PM learner4eva RT @DaveHallmon RT @lrnchat: Q1) What is Emotional Intelligence (Also known as EQ)? #LRNchat
8:40 PM JaneBozarth @eLearninCyclops @heikan2003 Found out today that LMS doesn’t really have function for ‘job aid’. What does that tell you? #lrnchat
8:40 PM NudgeVillage RT @write2tg: A0) I learned ‘There is only one corner of the universe you can be certain of improving, and that’s your own self’ Aldous Hux…
8:40 PM Quinnovator a1) a scam?🙂 #lrnchat
8:41 PM KCASTD RT @urbie: #lrnchat A0 learned that while #Sketchnoting requires specialized pens the #DoodleRevolution sets us free to use whatever.🙂
8:41 PM heikan2003 RT @urbie: #lrnchat A0 learned that while #Sketchnoting requires specialized pens the #DoodleRevolution sets us free to use whatever.🙂
8:41 PM JD_Dillon A1) Is “thoughtful manipulation” the wrong answer?🙂 #lrnchat
8:41 PM learner4eva RT @Quinnovator a1) a scam?🙂 > lol #lrnchat
8:41 PM Quinnovator a1) your ‘emotional intelligence’ quotient (reckon mine’s below 100) #lrnchat
8:42 PM DaveHallmon @lrnchat Q1) Emotional intelligence has something to do with #StarWars… #LRNchat
8:42 PM lodtrain Q1) EQ is understanding your learners emotions, I like to think of it as LQ learning quotient #lrnchat
8:42 PM Quinnovator RT @JD_Dillon: A1) Is “thoughtful manipulation” the wrong answer?🙂 #lrnchat <😀
8:42 PM heikan2003 @JaneBozarth It might lead me back to what I learned from @Quinnovator about performance support. #lrnchat
8:42 PM CandiceCPLP A1) the latest focus of learning buzzwords? #lrnchat
8:42 PM sachac @urbie No special pens required for #sketchnoting at all. Fun with whatever’s handy! (That said, pencil tends to fade, so…) #lrnchat
8:42 PM learner4eva A1) Shorter path to the dark side🙂 #lrnchat
8:42 PM kelly_smith01 @JaneBozarth @eLearninCyclops @heikan2003 – Not even “performance support” supported by the LMS? #lrnchat
8:42 PM eLearninCyclops RT @DaveHallmon RT @lrnchat: Q1) What is Emotional Intelligence (Also known as EQ)? #LRNchat
8:42 PM gabriellabroady a1. I dunno but I always tell people I’ve got a low “BQ” (bull-sh** quotient).🙂 #lrnchat
8:42 PM Quinnovator RT @learner4eva: A1) Shorter path to the dark side🙂 #lrnchat < on a roll!🙂
8:42 PM DaveHallmon @learner4eva Q1) Shorter? #LRNchat
8:43 PM brunowinck @Quinnovator #lrnchat true but serendip is just in front of me (south india facing sri-lanka) it allows some shortcuts
8:43 PM cnagel @lrnchat: Q1) What is Emotional Intelligence (Also known as EQ)? #LRNchat
8:43 PM write2tg A1) Emotional intelligence is being in touch with emotions – yours and others. But it is a fancy word more than anything else #lrnchat
8:43 PM kregerck #lrnchat: Q1) What is Emotional Intelligence (Also known as EQ)
8:43 PM theASIDEblog EQ is being able to handle life’s trials and tribulations. #lrnchat
8:43 PM JD_Dillon A1) Maybe it’s crying at the moment of optimal impact? #lrnchat
8:43 PM kelly_smith01 RT @DaveHallmon: RT @lrnchat: Q1) What is Emotional Intelligence (Also known as EQ)? #LRNchat
8:43 PM JaneBozarth Q1 EQ= get along – get around skills.#lrnchat
8:43 PM Quinnovator RT @heikan2003: @JaneBozarth It might lead me back to what I learned from @Quinnovator about performance support. #lrnchat < yes!
8:44 PM gabriellabroady RT @theASIDEblog: EQ is being able to handle life’s trials and tribulations. #lrnchat
8:44 PM briandusablon @JaneBozarth @eLearninCyclops @heikan2003 most do not. Which is annoying, but not shocking. #lrnchat
8:44 PM CandiceCPLP EQ: The capacity to read humans effectively #lrnchat
8:44 PM JD_Dillon RT @JaneBozarth: Q1 EQ= get along – get around skills.#lrnchat
8:44 PM brunowinck Q1) A good title (intriguing) for a book #LRNchat
8:44 PM changeguerilla A1: Understanding that people aren’t rational and then changing the way you engage with them to reflect this. #lrnchat
8:44 PM JennaHynes idk… skill used to influence, create cohesiveness #lrnchat
8:44 PM learner4eva RT @DaveHallmon @learner4eva Q1) Shorter? > yeah – already understand those emotions and where you want to go #LRNchat
8:44 PM eLearninCyclops Q1) Being able to “connect” but also ability to manipulate #lrnchat
8:44 PM reubentozman Well…isn’t IQ kinda scammy also? People believe its a measurment instead of a predictor. #lrnchat
8:44 PM write2tg A1) Emotional Intelligence is how we manage our relationships. It is a skill. #lrnchat
8:44 PM DaveHallmon @JD_Dillon Do all wives have this power? #LRNchat
8:44 PM kelly_smith01 Q1 Not sure what it “is” but Br. Bloom would put it in the affective domain #lrnchat
8:44 PM kregerck RT @theASIDEblog: EQ is being able to handle life’s trials and tribulations. #lrnchat
8:44 PM Quinnovator @brunowinck whoa, that’s a serious time diff, glad you can join! #lrnchat
8:44 PM changeguerilla RT @CandiceCPLP: EQ: The capacity to read humans effectively #lrnchat
8:44 PM heikan2003 Q1) EQ also includes an element of self awareness; not just your reading of others. #lrnchat
8:44 PM jshamsy #lrnchat A1) Emotional Intelligence is being able to perceive and control emotions..with a lot of emphasis on the control.
8:45 PM learner4eva RT @DaveHallmon @JD_Dillon Do all wives have this power? > certainly🙂 #LRNchat
8:45 PM write2tg RT @jshamsy #lrnchat A1) Emotional Intelligence is being able to perceive and control emotions..with a lot of emphasis on the control.
8:45 PM kelly_smith01 RT @kelly_smith01: Q1 Not sure what it “is” but Dr. Bloom would put it in the affective domain #lrnchat
8:45 PM learner4eva RT @heikan2003 Q1) EQ also includes an element of self awareness; not just your reading of others. #lrnchat
8:45 PM DaveHallmon RT @heikan2003: Q1) EQ also includes an element of self awareness; not just your reading of others. #lrnchat
8:45 PM CandiceCPLP Did anyone invite @Daniel Goleman? #lrnchat
8:45 PM JaneBozarth @kelly_smith01 @eLearninCyclops @heikan2003 not as such. must be associated w a ‘course’ #lrnchat
8:45 PM gabriellabroady RT @kelly_smith01: Q1 Not sure what it “is” but Br. Bloom would put it in the affective domain #lrnchat
8:45 PM urbie @sachac #lrnchat the #sketchnote says that whilst any pen/pencil will do there are -special- ones that work better. Doodling is simpler.
8:45 PM lodtrain RT @heikan2003: Q1) EQ also includes an element of self awareness; not just your reading of others. #lrnchat
8:45 PM JD_Dillon @DaveHallmon it can be measured based on ring size …🙂 #lrnchat
8:45 PM lodtrain RT @jshamsy: #lrnchat A1) Emotional Intelligence is being able to perceive and control emotions..with a lot of emphasis on the control.
8:45 PM JennaHynes also a dark art used to label people #lrnchat
8:45 PM theASIDEblog Too many parents interfere w/ the natural emotions of children for fear of them being hurt. Result, the don’t know how to manage. #lrnchat
8:46 PM kregerck #lrnchat A1) EQ like most things is a skill/quality that can be good or bad depending upon user….
8:46 PM JaneBozarth @eLearninCyclops @heikan2003 Not my point. Fact that it doesn’t care about job aids really speaks volumes, doesn’t it? #lrnchat
8:46 PM DaveHallmon @JD_Dillon Checking my bank account now… #LRNchat
8:46 PM kregerck RT @learner4eva: RT @heikan2003 Q1) EQ also includes an element of self awareness; not just your reading of others. #lrnchat
8:46 PM brunowinck RT @jshamsy: #lrnchat A1) Emotional Intelligence is being able to perceive and control emotions..with a lot of emphasis on the control.
8:47 PM DaveHallmon RT @theASIDEblog: Too many parents interfere w/ the natural emotions of children for fear of them being hurt. Result, the don’t know how to…
8:47 PM theASIDEblog EQ is about handling your own emotions and reading others. #lrnchat
8:47 PM heikan2003 RT @JennaHynes: also a dark art used to label people #lrnchat I agree–unfortunately as I think that is not productive.
8:47 PM kelly_smith01 Not sure if I “understand” or believe in EQ – yet – I am open willing to read more #lrnchat
8:47 PM lrnchat Q2) What are the benefits of EQ? #lrnchat
8:47 PM eLearninCyclops RT @lrnchat Q2) What are the benefits of EQ? #lrnchat
8:47 PM write2tg RT @lrnchat Q2) What are the benefits of EQ? #lrnchat
8:47 PM kelly_smith01 RT @lrnchat: Q2) What are the benefits of EQ? #lrnchat
8:47 PM kregerck RT @changeguerilla: A1: Understanding that people aren’t rational and then changing the way you engage with them to reflect this. #lrnchat
8:47 PM learner4eva RT @lrnchat Q2) What are the benefits of EQ? #lrnchat
8:47 PM JaneBozarth Q1 books all say plenty of instances of smart people who aren’t very successful; not-smart people who are. EQ is at play. #lrnchat
8:47 PM urbie #lrnchat A1 Eotional Intelligence (EQ) is like a stereo’s EQ: both help tune stuff that affects emotion so we can go with the flow.
8:48 PM JaneBozarth RT @lrnchat: Q2) What are the benefits of EQ? #lrnchat
8:48 PM gabriellabroady a1. Resilience, Respect (for self & others), and Responsibility (even when it’s hard). #lrnchat
8:48 PM urbie RT @lrnchat: Q2) What are the benefits of EQ? #lrnchat
8:48 PM JD_Dillon @JaneBozarth @eLearninCyclops @heikan2003 Job aid may be accessed more than once, does not compute😦 #lrnchat
8:48 PM gabriellabroady RT @lrnchat: Q2) What are the benefits of EQ? #lrnchat
8:48 PM JD_Dillon RT @lrnchat: Q2) What are the benefits of EQ? #lrnchat
8:48 PM DaveHallmon @lrnchat A2) It can be used to label people #Sarcasm #LRNchat
8:48 PM kregerck RT @lrnchat: Q2) What are the benefits of EQ? #lrnchat
8:48 PM NudgeVillage #lrnchat – A1) knowing how to respond, act or speak in a particular situation. Or, how not to at all. #emotionalintelligence
8:48 PM briandusablon RT @JaneBozarth: @eLearninCyclops @heikan2003 Not my point. Fact that it doesn’t care about job aids really speaks volumes, doesn’t it? #lr…
8:48 PM lodtrain Q1) What is your EQ #lrnchat http://t.co/6Wzx6pqluc
8:48 PM JaneBozarth q2 aids in navigating political waters, crafting message, getting along/ahead #lrnchat
8:48 PM learner4eva A2) Enhanced ability to relate to others #lrnchat
8:48 PM JD_Dillon A2) Political office? #lrnchat
8:48 PM brunowinck @eLearninCyclops Being able to be monipulated exists anyway once you connect to others, could be also a radar to detect it #lrnchat #lrnchat
8:48 PM reubentozman A2) There are no “benefits”. EQ like IQ is simply a way of ‘predicting’ certain outcomes based on where you fall on the curve #lrnchat
8:48 PM Quinnovator RT @lrnchat: Q2) What are the benefits of EQ? #lrnchat
8:49 PM nGinius A2) Benefit of EQ is having the fight and preserving the relationship #lrnchat
8:49 PM JaneBozarth @urbie i like the word ‘tune’. #lrnchat
8:49 PM write2tg A2) Benefits of EQ: Knowing yourself, knowing others, make connections, know when and how to respond or not #lrnchat
8:49 PM eLearninCyclops @JD_Dillon @JaneBozarth @heikan2003 Job Aid = Apply Skill / LMS = ? #lrnchat
8:49 PM jshamsy #lrnchat A2) Benefits can be big if honed skill and used w/good intentions. Reading people is soft skill — important in group dynamics
8:49 PM CandiceCPLP @JennaHynes You mean like MBTI? #lrnchat
8:49 PM lodtrain Q2) EQ = Better understanding of employees, better leadership, better networking perhaps #lrnchat
8:49 PM urbie #lrnchat A2 In training/learning EQ enables engagement, motivation. Those E-Learning courses with next/back buttons would never end w/o EQ.
8:49 PM theASIDEblog Benefits of EQ is balance. It’s the ability to read and respond to situations. #lrnchat
8:49 PM kelly_smith01 Q2) Q2) Hopefully – objectivity, openness, and patience #lrnchat
8:49 PM JD_Dillon @eLearninCyclops @JaneBozarth @heikan2003 LMS = I clicked that thing once! #lrnchat
8:49 PM gabriellabroady a2. resilience, diplomacy, humility in good times & bad. #lrnchat
8:49 PM DaveHallmon @lrnchat A2) Could be a major aspect of the pharmaceutical industry? #Drugs #LRNchat
8:49 PM heikan2003 A2) Being able “to read” people can help one network & not say something they should not maybe. #lrnchat
8:50 PM changeguerilla A2: No shortage of smart people who can’t get things done because they can’t get others on board. #lrnchat
8:50 PM kregerck RT @jshamsy: #lrnchat A2) Benefits can be big if honed skill and used w/good intentions. Reading people is soft skill — important in group…
8:50 PM learner4eva A2) Knowing difference between inside/outside thoughts and what is appropriate to speak about/on #lrnchat
8:50 PM Quinnovator a2) ability to work with others (research shows groups problem solve best if social awareness is high) #lrnchat
8:50 PM write2tg A2) EQ relates to leadership, communication and conflict management (for better or worse) #lrnchat
8:50 PM reubentozman Like IQ it is only useful in specific contexts but is utterly useless in others
#lrnchat
8:50 PM JaneBozarth BTW last EQ test I took showed me having the profile of a fighter pilot. #lrnchat
8:50 PM Quinnovator a2) (implying, obviously, that EQ related to social awareness😉 #lrnchat
8:51 PM JaneBozarth @DaveHallmon yes and sales in general #lrnchat
8:51 PM kregerck #lrnchat A1) EQ – an important management/leadership skill. Important to be connected to your staff…genuinely.
8:51 PM stickylearning late to #lrnchat today Q2) EQ = Human centredness
8:51 PM brunowinck @reubentozman #lrnchat so being able to avoid to conjugate emtoions is a possible benefit ?
8:51 PM learner4eva RT @urbie A2 In learning EQ enables engagement, motivation. Those E-Learning courses w next/back buttons wouldn’t end w/o EQ. #lrnchat
8:51 PM ActivateLearn A2) I’d say objectivity, understanding, empathy…tough question! #lrnchat
8:51 PM heikan2003 RT @write2tg: A2) EQ relates to leadership, communication and conflict management (for better or worse) #lrnchat Good in OD/facilitating.
8:51 PM learner4eva @ActivateLearn Good to see you Helen #lrnchat
8:52 PM JaneBozarth @Quinnovator how are you defining EQ? #lrnchat
8:52 PM kregerck Yes! @lodtrain Q2) EQ = Better understanding of employees, better leadership, better networking perhaps #lrnchat
8:52 PM jshamsy @write2tg Great point!!! EQ key in conflict management — there is a good way and a bad way to mitigate or make problems go away #lrnchat
8:52 PM CandiceCPLP “@JaneBozarth: BTW last EQ test I took showed me having the profile of a fighter pilot. #lrnchat” >wait, you mean you’re not? !
8:52 PM DaveHallmon RT @JaneBozarth: @Quinnovator how are you defining EQ? #lrnchat
8:52 PM Marciedbeachem RT @lrnchat: Q0) We always begin with this: What did you learn today? If not today, then this week? #lrnchat
8:52 PM eLearninCyclops MT @heikan2003 RT @write2tg: A2) EQ relates 2 leadership, comm and conflict mgt (for better or worse) #lrnchat Good in OD/facilitating.
8:52 PM JD_Dillon A2) Are you a hero or a villain? “Benefits” is a contextual term. #lrnchat
8:52 PM ActivateLearn A2) @JaneBozarth I dread to think what my profile would show! #lrnchat
8:52 PM stickylearning first #lrnchat for a while – seems to be running along at top speed as always!
8:53 PM ActivateLearn @learner4eva Hi there! Sorry I’m late. I’m working from home so doing a bit of lurking too…#lrnchat
8:53 PM kelly_smith01 RT @JaneBozarth: BTW last EQ test I took showed me having the profile of a fighter pilot. #lrnchat
8:53 PM DaveHallmon @JD_Dillon Q2) We could all be victims too… #LRNchat
8:53 PM JaneBozarth @CandiceCPLP I didn’t say I disagreed. #lrnchat
8:53 PM Quinnovator RT @JaneBozarth: @Quinnovator how are you defining EQ? #lrnchat < loosely! awareness of own & other’s emotional states, ways to address
8:53 PM brunowinck A2) Ability to work with others in emotional prone situations or with meo type of persons #lrnchat
8:53 PM write2tg A2) EQ has a place in space too. They hire astronauts not only for skills but also for their emotional intelligence🙂 #lrnchat
8:53 PM kregerck RT @jshamsy: @write2tg Great point!!! EQ key in conflict management — there is a good way and a bad way to mitigate or make problems go aw…
8:53 PM ActivateLearn @stickylearning Well hellllllooo!! #lrnchat
8:53 PM CandiceCPLP Benefits of EQ are most notable when they’re not present. #lrnchat
8:54 PM gabriellabroady 2. comments about benes being u know what to talk & not talk about; sometimes EQ is talking about things no one else will! #lrnchat
8:54 PM JaneBozarth Clarification: I didn’t say I disagreed with having the profile of a fighter piilot. #lrnchat #IfFighterPilotsShoesFit
8:54 PM stickylearning Too sunny to be in the office today Helen😉 @ActivateLearn #lrnchat
8:54 PM kelly_smith01 With the advent of social media and DHS I would not want to publish my EQ – #lrnchat
8:54 PM brunowinck @ActivateLearn @learner4eva morning coffee chat🙂 #lrnchat
8:54 PM JaneBozarth @Quinnovator but you think it doesn’t tie to emotional awareness? #lrnchat
8:54 PM eLearninCyclops RT @brunowinck: Being able to be monipulated exists anyway once you connect to others, could be also a radar to detect it #lrnchat /true
8:54 PM JaimePylant RT @lrnchat: #lrnchat tonight 8:30 ET 5:30 PT Why should we care about learner beliefs about learning? https://t.co/xCOxBbOB1V
8:55 PM GregatEdgenuity RT @Edgenuityinc: “Embracing Messy Learning.” What can students learn through the struggle? #LrnChat #teachers http://t.co/mD8cFzTKf8
8:55 PM kregerck Interesting point! @CandiceCPLP
Benefits of EQ are most notable when they’re not present. #lrnchat
8:55 PM DaveHallmon @Quinnovator @JaneBozarth and how to leverage EQ most effectively and efficiently #LRNchat
8:55 PM write2tg A2) EQ – you know its missing when there are communication issues, lack of trust and when you can’t relate #lrnchat
8:55 PM JD_Dillon A2) EQ always makes a nice fluffy, important-sounding, non-impact CE course offering! #lrnchat
8:55 PM __Chaz RT @write2tg: A2) EQ relates to leadership, communication and conflict management (for better or worse) #lrnchat
8:55 PM JaneBozarth @stickylearning hi there — good to see you. #lrnchat
8:56 PM ActivateLearn @brunowinck @learner4eva for me it’s lunchtime, working from home and it’s stinking hot…#lrnchat
8:56 PM lrnchat Q3) What are the downsides or risks of EQ? #lrnchat
8:56 PM eLearninCyclops RT @lrnchat Q3) What are the downsides or risks of EQ? #lrnchat
8:56 PM write2tg RT @lrnchat Q3) What are the downsides or risks of EQ? #lrnchat
8:56 PM kelly_smith01 I hope they look at all the cute puppy pictures I have liked on Facebook – good for my EQ?
#lrnchat
8:56 PM kelly_smith01 RT @lrnchat: Q3) What are the downsides or risks of EQ? #lrnchat
8:56 PM learner4eva @ActivateLearn @brunowinck Night time for me. I saw the temp was above 100. Wow. We finally made it into the 30s today #lrnchat
8:56 PM JD_Dillon RT @lrnchat: Q3) What are the downsides or risks of EQ? #lrnchat
8:56 PM mizminh EQ very high in sociopaths – they are able to manipulate the emotions of others with considerable precision #lrnchat
8:56 PM learner4eva RT @lrnchat Q3) What are the downsides or risks of EQ? #lrnchat
8:57 PM Quinnovator RT @JaneBozarth: but you think it doesn’t tie to emotional awareness? #lrnchat < said “awareness”, but emotional <> social (related)
8:57 PM DaveHallmon @lrnchat A3) Didn’t someone bring up #Politics previously? #LRNchat
8:57 PM kelly_smith01 q3) Judging others or thinking one can judge others #lrnchat
8:57 PM stickylearning 🙂 Hi Jane – it’s been awhile since I’ve been to #lrnchat @JaneBozarth
8:57 PM JD_Dillon A3) Misinterpretation. Over-reliance. Manipulation. #lrnchat
8:57 PM urbie #lrnchat A2 Nothing like a good story to grab the learner’s EQ and immerse them in the experience. If it’s done right of course.
8:57 PM jshamsy A3) Being “sold”…feeling like you are being talked up or manipulated…nobody likes the used car salesman #lrnchat
8:57 PM urbie RT @lrnchat: Q3) What are the downsides or risks of EQ? #lrnchat
8:57 PM Quinnovator RT @lrnchat: Q3) What are the downsides or risks of EQ? #lrnchat
8:57 PM eLearninCyclops A3) Downside – Being that charismatic leader… Who shuts down a major east coast bridge🙂 #lrnchat
8:57 PM write2tg A3) Downsides of EQ: manipulation of emotions, judging too soon or too much, over analysis and not being ‘natural’ #lrnchat
8:58 PM Marciedbeachem RT @JaneBozarth: Q1 EQ= get along – get around skills.#lrnchat
8:58 PM kregerck RT @eLearninCyclops: RT @lrnchat Q3) What are the downsides or risks of EQ? #lrnchat
8:58 PM DaveHallmon @kelly_smith01 #Puppies are good for #PersonalBranding and #SEO #LRNchat
8:58 PM changeguerilla A3: Someone tries to test for it and use it in recruitment… #lrnchat
8:58 PM JaneBozarth @jshamsy That’s what I’m asking @Quinnovator as he indicated seeing them as separate #lrnchat
8:58 PM CandiceCPLP “@lrnchat: Q3) What are the downsides or risks of EQ? #lrnchat” of not having/using or of having/using? What’s your position?
8:58 PM lodtrain q3) Downside = using EQ to manipulate leading to negative results – think Madoff #lrnchat
8:58 PM gabriellabroady RT @kelly_smith01: q3) Judging others or thinking one can judge others #lrnchat
8:58 PM lodtrain RT @eLearninCyclops: A3) Downside – Being that charismatic leader… Who shuts down a major east coast bridge🙂 #lrnchat
8:58 PM heikan2003 MT @kelly_smith01: q3) Judging others or thinking one can judge others #lrnchat a “misjudge” is horrific.
8:58 PM JaneBozarth @stickylearning I know. I keep roll. You need a note from your mother. #lrnchat
8:58 PM ActivateLearn @JaneBozarth Oooh I like that. Simple. Easy to remember #lrnchat
8:58 PM Quinnovator having trouble focusing, family interruptions: m’lady tech emergency, lad home arrival, hopefully back now #lrnchat
8:59 PM ActivateLearn RT @JaneBozarth: Q1 EQ= get along – get around skills.#lrnchat
8:59 PM cnagel RT @eLearninCyclops: A3) Downside – Being that charismatic leader… Who shuts down a major east coast bridge🙂 #lrnchat LOL
8:59 PM focusonenjoying RT @Quinnovator: RT @heikan2003: A0) that sometimes all you need is a job aid, not full blown eLearning #lrnchat < hear her!
8:59 PM eLearninCyclops RT @ActivateLearn RT @JaneBozarth: Q1 EQ= get along – get around skills.#lrnchat
8:59 PM 19Pencils RT @theASIDEblog: EQ is being able to handle life’s trials and tribulations. #lrnchat
8:59 PM JaneBozarth @Quinnovator ok you lost me. #lrnchat
8:59 PM JennaHynes I just took the EQ quiz… it says I’m above average, but I think my husband would tell you otherwise. #stoic #lrnchat
8:59 PM gabriellabroady RT @changeguerilla: A3: Someone tries to test for it and use it in recruitment… #lrnchat
8:59 PM kregerck RT @write2tg: A3) Downsides of EQ: manipulation of emotions, judging too soon or too much, over analysis and not being ‘natural’ #lrnchat
8:59 PM urbie #lrnchat A3 In the wrong hands EQ can be misused for inhumane ends. You know, controlling/manipulation. Like the scent in a Nordstrom’s.
8:59 PM JaneBozarth RT @lrnchat: Q3) What are the downsides or risks of EQ? #lrnchat
9:00 PM heikan2003 Q3) Using one’s EQ gift to step on others, get ahead at cost to others. #lrnchat
9:00 PM lodtrain RT @urbie: #lrnchat A3 In the wrong hands EQ can be misused for inhumane ends. You know, controlling/manipulation. Like the scent in a Nord…
9:00 PM Quinnovator RT @JaneBozarth: @Quinnovator ok you lost me. #lrnchat < sorry, my bad, fam interruptions keeping me from keeping my thoughts straight!
9:00 PM DaveHallmon A3) QT “there are no downsides to EQ.” –Darth Vader #LRNchat
9:00 PM write2tg A3) Like any other social skill, you can use EQ to either bring good to others or harm them. #lrnchat
9:00 PM CandiceCPLP A3) Danger of EQ: relying on misinterpretation; using it as an excuse for bad behavior. #lrnchat
9:00 PM stickylearning A3) EQ is like the force – there is a dark side #lrnchat
9:00 PM eLearninCyclops A3) Focussing on emotion when you really need to focus on fixing the widget #lrnchat
9:00 PM kregerck #lrnchat A3) Overreliance on it as a skill. As the article indicated…it has its place like most skills…
9:00 PM lodtrain RT @heikan2003: Q3) Using one’s EQ gift to step on others, get ahead at cost to others. #lrnchat
9:00 PM write2tg A3) Being emotionally intelligent is neither good nor bad. It’s how you use your skills – for good or bad. #lrnchat
9:00 PM tech_NICOLE RT @SMART_Tech: What are you doing different to make progress at your school? Read Shireland’s story here. #lrnchat #satchat http://t.co/Es…
9:00 PM lodtrain RT @write2tg: A3) Like any other social skill, you can use EQ to either bring good to others or harm them. #lrnchat
9:00 PM Quinnovator RT @JaneBozarth: ok you lost me. #lrnchat < ah, thought you were referring to earlier comment on *social* awareness: yes awareness
9:00 PM kregerck RT @CandiceCPLP: A3) Danger of EQ: relying on misinterpretation; using it as an excuse for bad behavior. #lrnchat
9:01 PM JD_Dillon @DaveHallmon Did I say that? #lrnchat
9:01 PM knolinfos #lrnchat Hi, NOT present on CHAT tonight, BUT #EQ is #DanielGOLEMAN, please check ===> http://t.co/nfEv6bzhrN #books ALSO in English😉
9:01 PM kregerck RT @heikan2003: Q3) Using one’s EQ gift to step on others, get ahead at cost to others. #lrnchat
9:01 PM brunowinck RT @CandiceCPLP: A3) Danger of EQ: relying on misinterpretation; using it as an excuse for bad behavior. #lrnchat
9:01 PM 19Pencils We’re joining late and just learning from all of you. #lrnchat
9:01 PM JaneBozarth RT @eLearninCyclops: A3) Focussing on emotion when you really need to focus on fixing the widget #lrnchat
9:01 PM changeguerilla A3: Sporns fake science like right and left brain, the intelligences etc. #lrnchat
9:01 PM JennaHynes @write2tg yes! #lrnchat
9:01 PM heikan2003 MT @write2tg: A3) Being emotionally intelligent is neither good nor bad. It’s how you use your skills – for good or bad. #lrnchat amen!
9:02 PM learner4eva A3) Damage to relationships if used wrong #lrnchat
9:02 PM Quinnovator a3) leveraging EQ for evil #lrnchat
9:02 PM JaneBozarth If you missed it, article for tonight is at http://t.co/rZ34ETs3T9 ; comments there are interesting #lrnchat
9:02 PM lodtrain RT @heikan2003: MT @write2tg: A3) Being emotionally intelligent is neither good nor bad. It’s how you use your skills – for good or bad. #…
9:02 PM kregerck Agreed! @write2tg A3) Being emotionally intelligent is neither good nor bad. It’s how you use your skills – for good or bad. #lrnchat
9:03 PM kregerck RT @eLearninCyclops: A3) Focussing on emotion when you really need to focus on fixing the widget #lrnchat
9:03 PM stickylearning A3) EQ can become another misused misunderstood buzz term #lrnchat
9:03 PM DaveHallmon A3) Has anyone heard of using EQ for educational decisions? #LRNchat
9:03 PM kregerck RT @JaneBozarth: If you missed it, article for tonight is at http://t.co/rZ34ETs3T9 ; comments there are interesting #lrnchat
9:03 PM heikan2003 RT @JaneBozarth: If you missed it, article for tonight is at http://t.co/8nyQYlmj2Y ; comments there are interesting #lrnchat
9:03 PM KCASTD RT @JaneBozarth: If you missed it, article for tonight is at http://t.co/5kZGfVolVP ; comments there are interesting #lrnchat
9:03 PM CandiceCPLP RT @stickylearning: A3) EQ can become another misused misunderstood buzz term #lrnchat
9:03 PM kelly_smith01 A3) Does high participation #lrnchat have a positive correlation to a high EQ score?
#nolurking
9:03 PM kenjansen @lrnchat lurking on #lrnchat
9:04 PM JaneBozarth “There are two reasons anyone works anywhere. One, they can do their job. Two, they can get along with their coworkers.” #lrnchat
9:04 PM DaveHallmon RT @kelly_smith01: A3) Does high participation #lrnchat have a positive correlation to a high EQ score?
#nolurking
9:04 PM ActivateLearn A3) After reading article, paradox. Wld you say that someone who manipulates has a strong EQ or not?It’s how they choose to use it? #lrnchat
9:04 PM lodtrain How many Q terms can we create MQ Mgt quotient, SQ Social Quotient….🙂 #lrnchat
9:04 PM Quinnovator a3) because I can *so* manipulate you! Bwahaahaa! #lrnchat
9:05 PM lrnchat Q4) Can EQ be developed? If so, how? If not, why not? #lrnchat
9:05 PM learner4eva RT @lrnchat Q4) Can EQ be developed? If so, how? If not, why not? #lrnchat
9:05 PM write2tg RT @lrnchat Q4) Can EQ be developed? If so, how? If not, why not? #lrnchat
9:05 PM JD_Dillon @ActivateLearn I’d say high EQ relates to capability, not application. #lrnchat
9:05 PM eLearninCyclops RT @lrnchat Q4) Can EQ be developed? If so, how? If not, why not? #lrnchat
9:05 PM JD_Dillon RT @lrnchat: Q4) Can EQ be developed? If so, how? If not, why not? #lrnchat
9:05 PM kregerck RT @lrnchat: Q4) Can EQ be developed? If so, how? If not, why not? #lrnchat
9:05 PM lodtrain MT “@JaneBozarth: “There are 2 reasons anyone works anywhere. 1, they can do their job. 2 get along with their coworkers.” #lrnchat” & 3 Mgr
9:05 PM knolinfos @stickylearning Hi, in a #selfish world YES, BUT by people WHO have a #pedagogical #background NOT😉 #lrnchat #EQ
9:05 PM Quinnovator RT @lodtrain: How many Q terms can we create MQ Mgt quotient, SQ Social Quotient….🙂 #lrnchat < EQ: Evil Quotient! @kregerck
9:05 PM DaveHallmon @lrnchat A4) I think I saw this on Lost once🙂 #LRNchat
9:05 PM JaneBozarth “Ratio of how much effort must be expended getting along with coworkers versus actually getting the job done…” #lrnchat
9:05 PM Quinnovator RT @lrnchat: Q4) Can EQ be developed? If so, how? If not, why not? #lrnchat
9:05 PM kelly_smith01 Some of the comments on the #lrnchat reading displayed varying degrees of EQ.
9:05 PM heikan2003 RT @lrnchat: Q4) Can EQ be developed? If so, how? If not, why not? #lrnchat That is a hard one.
9:06 PM learner4eva A4) Yes, if you are aware of where you are, blind spots, and have a desire to work on those areas of opportunity #lrnchat
9:06 PM Quinnovator a4) I sure hope so, and would someone tell me how!?!?! #lrnchat
9:06 PM mizminh http://t.co/Rk5AESZWHC #lrnchat
9:06 PM JaneBozarth RT @lrnchat: Q4) Can EQ be developed? If so, how? If not, why not? #lrnchat
9:06 PM kelly_smith01 RT @lrnchat: Q4) Can EQ be developed? If so, how? If not, why not? #lrnchat
9:06 PM gabriellabroady @JaneBozarth yeah, you gotta decide which brand of crazy you like in the working world-they all have their own culture, EQ or not! #lrnchat
9:06 PM learner4eva RT @Quinnovator a4) I sure hope so, and would someone tell me how!?!?! 360🙂 #lrnchat
9:06 PM JD_Dillon A4) Yes. Study your prey and find their weaknesses … I mean emotional needs. #lrnchat
9:06 PM lodtrain Q4) Can EQ be developed – it is a skill that can be taught and practiced, but also nature born w/it vs nuture the skill #lrnchat
9:06 PM gabriellabroady RT @learner4eva: A4) Yes, if you are aware of where you are, blind spots, and have a desire to work on those areas of opportunity #lrnchat
9:06 PM JaneBozarth Q4 yes, which is what separates it from stuff like ‘personality types’ which is based on working w hand you’re dealt #lrnchat
9:06 PM changeguerilla A4: Yes by developing awareness of the impact of your actions on others and the motivations behind theirs. #lrnchat
9:07 PM knolinfos @Quinnovator Hi, really!? SHOW me, please😉 #lrnchat #EQ
9:07 PM kregerck #lrnchat A3) Like any skill, it can be developed. But also may need aptitude for maximum effect.
9:07 PM JaneBozarth RT @JD_Dillon: A4) Yes. Study your prey and find their weaknesses … I mean emotional needs. #lrnchat
9:07 PM DaveHallmon A4) Shouldn’t fighter pilots be trained in EQ @JaneBozarth ? #LRNchat
9:07 PM LearnKotch I missed another #lrnchat. All these chats during work time not good for productivity.Lucky with storify I can catch up with glass of wine!
9:07 PM CandiceCPLP A4) “first you have to want to change.” #lrnchat
9:07 PM heikan2003 @learner4eva I think that “have a desire to work on” is key to developing EQ. #lrnchat
9:07 PM Quinnovator RT @knolinfos: @Quinnovator Hi, really!? SHOW me, please😉 #lrnchat #EQ < ? Evil quotient? Can’t help…
9:07 PM kregerck RT @changeguerilla: A4: Yes by developing awareness of the impact of your actions on others and the motivations behind theirs. #lrnchat
9:07 PM heikan2003 MT @JD_Dillon: A4) Yes. Study your prey and find their weaknesses … I mean emotional needs. #lrnchat You are so bad.
9:08 PM Quinnovator RT @JD_Dillon: A4) Yes. Study your prey and find their weaknesses … I mean emotional needs. #lrnchat <😀
9:08 PM write2tg A4) You can be born with EQ and I guess you can acquire it too. Both nature and nurture have a role to play. #lrnchat
9:08 PM CandiceCPLP “@JD_Dillon: A4) Yes. Study your prey and find their weaknesses … I mean emotional needs. #lrnchat”>go for the soft white underbelly
9:08 PM JaneBozarth Most of us know very well the ‘power of storytelling’ depends on manipulating emotions. #lrnchat
9:08 PM Quinnovator RT @JaneBozarth: Most of us know very well the ‘power of storytelling’ depends on manipulating emotions. #lrnchat
9:08 PM kelly_smith01 I belive (now) that your EQ is fairly constant – may chage with age but not chaged via a course #lrnchat
9:08 PM DaveHallmon RT @JaneBozarth: ‘power of storytelling’ depends on manipulating emotions > Very True #lrnchat
9:09 PM kregerck RT @write2tg: A4) You can be born with EQ and I guess you can acquire it too. Both nature and nurture have a role to play. #lrnchat
9:09 PM learner4eva @heikan2003 Yep – know where you are; set goal for where you want to be. Fire and desire – oh, that’s a song🙂 #lrnchat
9:09 PM lodtrain @JaneBozarth #lrnchat think steve jobs….
9:09 PM ExpertusONE +1 MT @kelly_smith01 Innovation and Serendipity http://t.co/TAS3cHu0iE #learning #lrnchat #powerofpull
9:09 PM urbie #lrnchat A3 Bad EQ.. Students filling in the 1 circle on the level one bubble sheet because the instructor chided them for not doing work.
9:09 PM brunowinck RT @JaneBozarth: “Ratio of how much effort must be expended getting along with coworkers versus actually getting the job done…” #lrnchat
9:09 PM JD_Dillon RT @DaveHallmon: RT @JaneBozarth: ‘power of storytelling’ depends on manipulating emotions > Very True #lrnchat
9:09 PM kregerck RT @Quinnovator: RT @JaneBozarth: Most of us know very well the ‘power of storytelling’ depends on manipulating emotions. #lrnchat
9:09 PM JaneBozarth @DaveHallmon not following you. good fighter pilots can fire missle/move on. #lrnchat
9:09 PM urbie RT @lrnchat: Q4) Can EQ be developed? If so, how? If not, why not? #lrnchat
9:09 PM RedPressures RT @ExpertusONE: +1 MT @kelly_smith01 Innovation and Serendipity http://t.co/TAS3cHu0iE #learning #lrnchat #powerofpull
9:10 PM jshamsy A4) Absolutely think can be developed…I have found my ability to do this much better w/practice & uncomfortable group situations #lrnchat
9:10 PM stickylearning A4) Yes, you can develop EQ skills – probably not via formal course – but more through experience #lrnchat
9:10 PM Dave_Ferguson . @Quinnovator For some, having trouble focusing is a way of life. #lrnchat
9:10 PM learner4eva RT @stickylearning A4) Yes, you can develop EQ skills – probably not via formal course – but more through experience #lrnchat
9:10 PM ActivateLearn @JD_Dillon Fair call! I was just reflecting… #lrnchat
9:10 PM JaneBozarth @changeguerilla we didn’t say it was a good thing. we said it happened. And it’s worked very well for many charismatic leaders. #lrnchat
9:11 PM DaveHallmon @stickylearning A4) Isn’t everything trainable? #LRNchat
9:11 PM briandusablon RT @stickylearning: A4) Yes, you can develop EQ skills – probably not via formal course – but more through experience #lrnchat
9:11 PM JaneBozarth @changeguerilla are you referencing the prereading ? #lrnchat
9:11 PM gabriellabroady a4. Yes, through transformational learning – experience – remember the movie “Educating Rita” from grad school? #lrnchat
9:12 PM briandusablon @stickylearning what is this “experience” you speak of? Does it post a completion?😉 #lrnchat
9:12 PM Quinnovator RT @DaveHallmon: @stickylearning A4) Isn’t everything trainable? #LRNchat < like height & hair color?
9:12 PM heikan2003 MT @DaveHallmon: @stickylearning A4) Isn’t everything trainable? #LRNchat Don’t bait us like that Dave.🙂
9:12 PM stickylearning Improveable more than ‘trainable’ RT @DaveHallmon: @stickylearning A4) Isn’t everything trainable? #LRNchat
9:12 PM CandiceCPLP “@DaveHallmon: @stickylearning A4) Isn’t everything trainable? #LRNchat” but not EveryBODY, eh?
9:12 PM urbie #lrnchat A4 EQ, like karma, develops when it’s used. EQ, like a car battery, is polarized. Up to its owner to charge/discharge it.
9:12 PM Quinnovator RT @Dave_Ferguson: . @Quinnovator For some, having trouble focusing is a way of life. #lrnchat < I resemble that remark
9:12 PM lrnchat Q5) What’s the relationship between EQ and learning? #lrnchat
9:12 PM kenjansen @kenjansen: a4) EQ some aspects of EQ motivation and manipulation can be learned in certain sales/marketing training. #LRNchat
9:12 PM write2tg I can train for skills but not for how you end up using them! RT @DaveHallmon @stickylearning A4) Isn’t everything trainable? #lrnchat
9:12 PM write2tg RT @lrnchat Q5) What’s the relationship between EQ and learning? #lrnchat
9:12 PM urbie RT @lrnchat: Q5) What’s the relationship between EQ and learning? #lrnchat
9:12 PM Quinnovator RT @lrnchat: Q5) What’s the relationship between EQ and learning? #lrnchat
9:12 PM learner4eva RT @lrnchat Q5) What’s the relationship between EQ and learning? #lrnchat
9:13 PM JaneBozarth Memorable tv commercials show understanding of IQ. Hamburgers make you cry. Soda is love. #lrnchat
9:13 PM JD_Dillon RT @lrnchat: Q5) What’s the relationship between EQ and learning? #lrnchat
9:13 PM mizminh Is EQ innate – is lack of it due to wiring? Has evolution selected for EQ? Is it like handedness? #research #lrnchat
9:13 PM kelly_smith01 Maybe change EQ through some form of failure (not via a course)- though life experience (sorry for using the term life experience #lrnchat
9:13 PM Quinnovator a5) good learning addresses the emotion as well as the cognitive #lrnchat
9:13 PM heikan2003 RT @kenjansen: : a4) EQ some aspects of EQ motivation and manipulation can be learned in certain sales/marketing training. #LRNchat
9:13 PM knolinfos #lrnchat WHEN people are posting & NOT as WHAT THEY have published in THEIR Twitter profile, one can’t take THEM 4 serious :(((
9:13 PM kregerck RT @lrnchat: Q5) What’s the relationship between EQ and learning? #lrnchat
9:14 PM DaveHallmon @lrnchat A5) It depends on which side of the #InstructionalEvent you are on #LRNchat
9:14 PM kenjansen RT @JaneBozarth: Most of us know very well the ‘power of storytelling’ depends on manipulating emotions. #lrnchat
9:14 PM lodtrain Q5) EQ and learning go hand in hand – understanding the WIFM and including it for the learner who is king/queen #lrnchat
9:14 PM GnosisArts @JaneBozarth That’s a good point #lrnchat
9:14 PM gabriellabroady a5. Discernment. Determining where, when to use the learning to its best impact. #lrnchat
9:14 PM stickylearning Simple…..People RT @lrnchat: Q5) What’s the relationship between EQ and learning? #lrnchat
9:14 PM kenjansen RT @write2tg: A4) You can be born with EQ and I guess you can acquire it too. Both nature and nurture have a role to play. #lrnchat
9:14 PM write2tg A5) EQ and learning – all good learning has to appeal to our emotions. #lrnchat
9:14 PM DaveHallmon RT @lodtrain: Q5) EQ and learning go hand in hand – understanding the WIFM and including it for the learner who is king/queen #lrnchat
9:14 PM learner4eva RT @gabriellabroady a5. Discernment. Determining where, when to use the learning to its best impact. #lrnchat
9:15 PM eLearninCyclops RT @lodtrain Q5) EQ and learning go hand in hand – understanding the WIFM and including it for the learner who is king/queen #lrnchat
9:15 PM lrnchat The prereading for tonight “Dark Side of EQ” is at http://t.co/8pWcYz9SPR #lrnchat
9:15 PM eLearninCyclops RT @write2tg A5) EQ and learning – all good learning has to appeal to our emotions. #lrnchat
9:15 PM brunowinck @stickylearning #lrnchat develop EQ through exp: isn’t it a risk to just reenforce wrong intuitions instead of gaining better understanding
9:15 PM Quinnovator a5) you don’t learn if you’re not emotionally engaged #lrnchat
9:15 PM heikan2003 Q5) If you have a high EQ, might you apply some learning faster? Have a feel for it? #lrnchat
9:15 PM changeguerilla A5: People forget what you tell them but remember what you made them feel. #lrnchat
9:15 PM kregerck #lrnchat A5) Instructor can use it to rec that learning can be hard (change) and appeal to learners motivations.
9:15 PM Quinnovator RT @changeguerilla: A5: People forget what you tell them but remember what you made them feel. #lrnchat
9:15 PM write2tg RT @changeguerilla A5: People forget what you tell them but remember what you made them feel. #lrnchat
9:15 PM JD_Dillon RT @Quinnovator: a5) you don’t learn if you’re not emotionally engaged #lrnchat
9:15 PM JD_Dillon RT @changeguerilla: A5: People forget what you tell them but remember what you made them feel. #lrnchat
9:15 PM kregerck RT @Quinnovator: a5) good learning addresses the emotion as well as the cognitive #lrnchat
9:16 PM lodtrain RT @changeguerilla: A5: People forget what you tell them but remember what you made them feel. #lrnchat
9:16 PM kenjansen RT @changeguerilla: A5: People forget what you tell them but remember what you made them feel. #lrnchat
9:16 PM lodtrain RT @kregerck: #lrnchat A5) Instructor can use it to rec that learning can be hard (change) and appeal to learners motivations.
9:16 PM DaveHallmon @heikan2003 A5) Or teach with more passion? Engage more learners? #LRNchat
9:16 PM CandiceCPLP RT @changeguerilla: A5: People forget what you tell them but remember what you made them feel. #lrnchat
9:16 PM heikan2003 RT @write2tg: A5) EQ and learning – all good learning has to appeal to our emotions. #lrnchat Yes & I have strong emotions on learning math
9:16 PM eLearninCyclops A5) You need to play to people’s emotions just to get them to attend training. #lrnchat
9:16 PM kenjansen RT @lodtrain: Q5) EQ and learning go hand in hand – understanding the WIFM and including it for the learner who is king/queen #lrnchat
9:16 PM JaneBozarth Goleman EQ categories:self-regulation, empathy, social skills, internal motivation, self-awareness #lrnchat
9:16 PM urbie #lrnchat A5 Drawing a blank on what the assessment’s called, but: EQ is to learning as Powerball is to Riches. Can’t win if you don’t play.
9:17 PM lodtrain RT @eLearninCyclops: A5) You need to play to people’s emotions just to get them to attend training. #lrnchat
9:17 PM jshamsy A5) EQ and motivation/goal setting/performance — all affect what you attend to and how much of YOU is put into learning IT #lrnchat
9:17 PM DaveHallmon @eLearninCyclops Gotta love the all the free swag #LRNchat
9:17 PM JD_Dillon @eLearninCyclops By “emotions” do you mean threat of physical violence? #lrnchat
9:17 PM write2tg @heikan2003 bet your math teacher didn’t think much of EQ else she/he would have created an ’emotionally safe’ learning envt #lrnchat
9:17 PM heikan2003 @DaveHallmon I think we always teach with more passion when emotionally engaged with the material. Good point. #lrnchat
9:17 PM kelly_smith01 I guess I will have to read a bit on appealing to emotions with learning. See that is the value of #lrnchat
9:17 PM kregerck RT @JaneBozarth: Goleman EQ categories:self-regulation, empathy, social skills, internal motivation, self-awareness #lrnchat
9:18 PM eLearninCyclops RT @JD_Dillon @eLearninCyclops By “emotions” do you mean threat of physical violence? #lrnchat | Yes😦 – Show em the benefits of attending
9:18 PM CandiceCPLP High EQ can *probably* relate better to wider audiences, choose effective analogies, etc. #lrnchat
9:18 PM kenjansen @heikan2003 i think with high EQ you could apply new things faster. mastering irrational fears #LRNchat
9:18 PM write2tg A5) All informal learning has a social-emotional aspect. Only if all formal learning had the same… #lrnchat
9:18 PM heikan2003 @write2tg she may have put me in that “unteachable” category.🙂 #lrnchat
9:18 PM eLearninCyclops RT @learner4eva: RT @eLearninCyclops A5) … > have to show the value of their time #lrnchat Yup
9:19 PM DaveHallmon @heikan2003 Martin Luther King was a great writer, thinker, teacher, preacher and his messages still live on today. #LRNchat
9:19 PM NaderALHamad “@changeguerilla: A5: People forget what you tell them but remember what you made them feel. #lrnchat”
9:19 PM NaderALHamad “@Quinnovator: a5) you don’t learn if you’re not emotionally engaged #lrnchat”
9:19 PM NaderALHamad “@Quinnovator: a5) good learning addresses the emotion as well as the cognitive #lrnchat”
9:19 PM heikan2003 @DaveHallmon LOVE IT! #lrnchat
9:19 PM JaneBozarth @changeguerilla you realize this is the #lrnchat convo, right?
9:20 PM kenjansen @JaneBozarth I have big peaks and valleys on that list #lrnchat
9:20 PM lrnchat Q6) How can we deliberately use emotion in designing learning experiences? Should we even do that? Why or why not? #lrnchat
9:20 PM kregerck RT @NaderALHamad: “@changeguerilla: A5: People forget what you tell them but remember what you made them feel. #lrnchat”
9:20 PM learner4eva RT @lrnchat Q6) How can we deliberately use emotion in designing learning experiences? Should we even do that? Why or why not? #lrnchat
9:20 PM JD_Dillon RT @lrnchat: Q6) How can we deliberately use emotion in designing learning experiences? Should we even do that? Why or why not? #lrnchat
9:20 PM write2tg RT @lrnchat Q6) How can we deliberately use emotion in designing learning experiences? Should we even do that? Why or why not? #lrnchat
9:20 PM Quinnovator RT @lrnchat: Q6) How can we deliberately use emotion in designing learning experiences? Should we even do that? Why or why not? #lrnchat
9:20 PM kelly_smith01 RT @lrnchat: Q6) How can we deliberately use emotion in designing learning experiences? Should we even do that? Why or why not? #lrnchat
9:20 PM CandiceCPLP A5) EQ is not ’emotion’ as IQ is not ‘intelligence’ The measure is not the thing itself. #lrnchat
9:20 PM DaveHallmon @lrnchat A4) Should the learner know? #LRNchat
9:21 PM kregerck RT @lrnchat: Q6) How can we deliberately use emotion in designing learning experiences? Should we even do that? Why or why not? #lrnchat
9:21 PM gabriellabroady RT @write2tg: RT @lrnchat Q6) How can we deliberately use emotion in designing learning experiences? Should we even do that? Why or why not…
9:21 PM write2tg A6) How can we not use emotion in designing learning experiences? No emotion no experience! #lrnchat
9:21 PM Medhaa04 RT @changeguerilla: A5: People forget what you tell them but remember what you made them feel. #lrnchat
9:21 PM JffZllr RT @JaneBozarth: If you missed it, article for tonight is at http://t.co/rZ34ETs3T9 ; comments there are interesting #lrnchat
9:21 PM lodtrain Q6) Deliberately use EQ by having GQ game quotient (gamification) awards badges can appeal to emots #lrnchat
9:21 PM JD_Dillon A6) Triggering emotion can improve engagement and buy-in. It’s manipulation but potentially beneficial for all. #lrnchat
9:21 PM urbie #lrnchat A5 I think there’s an EQ disharmony in elearning. Getting someone worked up, call to action-like and all whilst learner sits still?
9:21 PM DaveHallmon RT @write2tg: A6) How can we not use emotion in designing learning experiences? No emotion no experience! #lrnchat
9:21 PM JaneBozarth RT @lrnchat: Q6) How can we deliberately use emotion in designing learning experiences? Should we even do that? Why or why not? #lrnchat
9:21 PM urbie RT @lrnchat: Q6) How can we deliberately use emotion in designing learning experiences? Should we even do that? Why or why not? #lrnchat
9:21 PM knolinfos #lrnchat I am OFF, sorry! Too much BAD people WHO don’t know WHAT #EQ is! Anyway, keep UP the good work & have a great day😉
9:21 PM kregerck #lrnchat A6) What motivates your learners? How can you tap into that…make it relevant?
9:21 PM learner4eva A6) Relate the content/experiences to the audience. Use examples that apply 2 them so they are emotionally vested, engaged, etc. #lrnchat
9:22 PM gabriellabroady a6. Yes. Connect learners emotionally to why how they perform X new tasks impacts the company, teammates, community, etc. #lrnchat
9:22 PM DaveHallmon RT @kregerck: #lrnchat A6) What motivates your learners? How can you tap into that…make it relevant?
9:22 PM Quinnovator a5) open them emotionally (WIIFM), make it meaningful, address the highs/lows, and close the emotional experience #lrnchat
9:22 PM heikan2003 Q6) Our safety trainer uses emotion in his training. Fear. Punishment. Relief. #lrnchat
9:22 PM JaneBozarth @kenjansen we all do. Suggestion here is that they can be developed and, at extreme, be used for evil. #lrnchat
9:22 PM CandiceCPLP A6) take a marketing course? And tell stories! #lrnchat
9:22 PM JD_Dillon With one of my past employers, every training story included a meaningful customer death. EQ much? #lrnchat
9:22 PM kelly_smith01 Q6) That is one area –>” emotion in designing learning experiences” that I need to study #lrnchat
9:22 PM stickylearning A6) we design learning for people – so we must understand people #lrnchat
9:22 PM kregerck RT @CandiceCPLP: A5) EQ is not ’emotion’ as IQ is not ‘intelligence’ The measure is not the thing itself. #lrnchat
9:22 PM JD_Dillon RT @Quinnovator: a5) open them emotionally (WIIFM), make it meaningful, address the highs/lows, and close the emotional experience #lrnchat
9:22 PM JaneBozarth @changeguerilla You aren’t using the hashtag. you do realize this is #lrnchat?
9:22 PM learner4eva RT @stickylearning A6) we design learning for people – so we must understand people #lrnchat
9:22 PM urbie #lrnchat A6 Learning is organic, holistic. The more a learner can connect/immerse themselves in the experience the better.
9:23 PM DaveHallmon @lrnchat A6) But should the learner know that emotion was designed into the experience? #LRNchat
9:23 PM lodtrain Q6) Also sponsorship of a course(s) by charismatic leaders EQ can entice learners and can be built in ur chg mgt plan for lrng #lrnchat
9:23 PM write2tg A6) Emotions help make decisions (good or bad). Decisions have consequences. Consequences impact emotions. That’s how we learn. #lrnchat
9:23 PM Quinnovator a6) make it *meaningful*. That is all. #lrnchat
9:24 PM changeguerilla A6: Start a fire then invite people to a firefighting course. #lrnchat
9:24 PM JD_Dillon RT @Quinnovator: a6) make it *meaningful*. That is all. #lrnchat
9:24 PM lodtrain RT @Quinnovator: a6) make it *meaningful*. That is all. #lrnchat
9:24 PM nGinius @heikan2003 Fear can be a very effective teacher. #lrnchat
9:24 PM briandusablon @DaveHallmon @lrnchat #lrnchat bigger question: does it matter if they do?
9:24 PM kelly_smith01 RT @Quinnovator: a6) make it *meaningful*. That is all. #lrnchat
9:24 PM heikan2003 @DaveHallmon What would be the benefit if they “knew”? #lrnchat Might they resist?
9:24 PM Quinnovator @blairrorani design for it asynchronously, that *and* look for it synchronously #lrnchat
9:24 PM DaveHallmon @nGinius @heikan2003 That is true but scary #LRNchat
9:24 PM heikan2003 RT @Quinnovator: a6) make it *meaningful*. That is all. #lrnchat
9:24 PM gabriellabroady RT @changeguerilla: A6: Start a fire then invite people to a firefighting course. #lrnchat
9:25 PM lrnchat QWrap) It’s that time again. Please re-introduce yourselves. Shameless plugs welcome #lrnchat
9:25 PM learner4eva RT @lrnchat QWrap) It’s that time again. Please re-introduce yourselves. Shameless plugs welcome #lrnchat
9:25 PM kelly_smith01 I would say (and this is a guess): Stories/narrative #lrnchat
9:25 PM Quinnovator RT @lrnchat: QWrap) It’s that time again. Please re-introduce yourselves. Shameless plugs welcome #lrnchat < already?
9:25 PM write2tg Already! RT @lrnchat QWrap) It’s that time again. Please re-introduce yourselves. Shameless plugs welcome #lrnchat
9:25 PM AVPhysEd RT @TeachThought: Establishing A Twitter Routine In Your Classroom http://t.co/2dwTd3U65Z #edtech #lrnchat
9:25 PM JD_Dillon RT @lrnchat: QWrap) It’s that time again. Please re-introduce yourselves. Shameless plugs welcome #lrnchat
9:25 PM kregerck RT @write2tg: A6) Emotions help make decisions (good or bad). Decisions have consequences. Consequences impact emotions. That’s how we lear…
9:25 PM Quinnovator RT @kelly_smith01: I would say (and this is a guess): Stories/narrative #lrnchat < what he said
9:25 PM CandiceCPLP A6) Again, EQ is not the same as ’emotions’. As in MBTI, ‘judging’ is not ‘judgmental’ #lrnchat
9:25 PM JaneBozarth RT @lrnchat: QWrap) It’s that time again. Please re-introduce yourselves. Shameless plugs welcome #lrnchat
9:25 PM DaveHallmon @heikan2003 I think I posit that too. Mass exodus or attrition. #LRNchat
9:25 PM learner4eva Ann – Midwest; OD Professional #lrnchat
9:26 PM smir_ch @JD_Dillon what do you mean by “customer death”? #lrnchat
9:26 PM urbie #lrnchat Learned problem-based learning (PBL), Teaching Like A Pirate at #edcamp: 1 part context + 2 or more parts collaboration = #eduwin
9:26 PM kregerck Another great #lrnchat! Lots to think about!
9:26 PM urbie RT @lrnchat: QWrap) It’s that time again. Please re-introduce yourselves. Shameless plugs welcome #lrnchat
9:26 PM JD_Dillon QWrap) JD from Orlando. Nice to be back on #lrnchat … I’ll be presenting at #LSCon in March. Come say “Hi!”
9:26 PM kenjansen Have you read Make it Stick? great ideas on how to use emotion to make learning memorable #lrnchat
9:26 PM kelly_smith01 Qwrap) I have learned I need to some research on emotion in learning design #lrnchat
9:26 PM kregerck RT @lrnchat: QWrap) It’s that time again. Please re-introduce yourselves. Shameless plugs welcome #lrnchat
9:26 PM lodtrain Qwrap) Thanks for a great LCQ (learn chat quotient) from IT global trng #lrnchat always learn such great ideas from the LC colleagues
9:26 PM JaneBozarth Up next: ASTDTK2014, LT14 London, Training2014 San Diego… all in 3 weeks Do come say howdy if you’re at any of those #lrnchat .
9:27 PM heikan2003 @DaveHallmon Something for us both to think about. Thanks for the question. #lrnchat
9:27 PM jshamsy Don’t mean to get emotional..but it has been a good #lrnchat Have a great weekend!
9:27 PM stickylearning Michael from Melbourne, Australia – great #lrnchat – memo to self, ‘be back soon’
9:27 PM DaveHallmon @lrnchat Qwrap) It’s over? This learning experience has been so much fun. #LRNchat
9:27 PM JD_Dillon @smir_ch A customer died (naturally) as part of the story to heighten emotional impact #lrnchat
9:27 PM heikan2003 QWrap) Heidi from Kansas. As always thanks for stretching my brain. #lrnchat
9:27 PM smir_ch @learner4eva What does OD stand for? 2nd time I’m seeing that today #lrnchat
9:27 PM write2tg Feeling *emotional*..lots to learn about EQ and its connection to learning. Thanks for the great chat folks! #lrnchat
9:28 PM kenjansen RT @DaveHallmon: @lrnchat Qwrap) It’s over? This learning experience has been so much fun. #LRNchat
9:28 PM write2tg The advantage of the emotions is that they lead us astray, and the advantage of science is that it is not emotional. -Oscar Wilde #lrnchat
9:28 PM heikan2003 @kenjansen that book is on my book shelf but I have not read it yet #lrnchat
9:28 PM DaveHallmon Much more research to be done with the affective domain #LRNchat
9:28 PM urbie #lrnchat Awrap urbie delgado, instructional designer, recovering #sketchnote’r and recent #DoodleRevolution convert.
9:29 PM Quinnovator thanks to all new and returning participants for another wise and witty #lrnchat!
9:29 PM kregerck RT @kenjansen: Have you read Make it Stick? great ideas on how to use emotion to make learning memorable #lrnchat
9:29 PM gabriellabroady qwrap) Gabriella from MN, where we get excited @temps above 0! Instructional Designer, Project Manager, lover of global work teams! #lrnchat
9:30 PM heikan2003 @urbie doodling is excellent for helping one to stay attentive when not emotionally involved in a mtg. #lrnchat
9:30 PM kregerck #lrnchat Christine Kreger , librarian, teacher, learner.
9:30 PM lrnchat Thanks all for joining #lrnchat tonight. See you next week at this same time.